Remember that these 4 points are the key to maintaining marriage.

Why do you have to emphasize that couples must speak well? Good communication is the foundation for maintaining a happy marriage. So remind you to remember these points. Love should be loved, and words should be said. Marriage is a constant competition. No matter how high the salary of two people, how high the academic qualifications, or how far the knowledge is, it is not as important to talk well. I like it as a glimpse of love, and love is long-lasting. Speaking well, not only will our love spring breeze, but also the biggest decent in a marriage. Turning over the old account, it is the invisible killer of marriage. There is a girl asking: How to ingeniously turn over the old account with my boyfriend? Among them, the highest praise is: cousin also said that he is most afraid of reciting Chen sesame rotten millet . He went to buy salt, and he looked at it and bought it wrong: How many times have you said it, I have to add iodized salt, I can buy it every time! And last time, let you help me charge the phone, you can correct it. Number… He forgot to take the garbage bag downstairs, and he said: What happened to you? Last time, you forgot the base of the toilet, the seat cushion has a taste… One day, he took a female colleague back home and reported it to him in advance. As a result, every time the company meets, the watch will always be side-clicked: Is there a female colleague? Scared that he no longer dares to drive his colleagues. The cousin said that as soon as he listened to the old account, his body was immediately erected. After a long time, my cousin automatically generated a barrier. If you pretend that you can’t hear the watch, you won’t change it next time. If you are angry, you will be more stunned: you can’t do anything small, no wonder that the old man is going to the project manager, you are still here. Cousin naturally can’t listen to this, and the two started a new round of quarrels. In fact, we are also very helpless. No one likes to keep turning over the old books. Many times, because the lover is not long-term, I have to say it over and over again. However, the old account can not solve the problem, and if it is not careful, it will touch the bottom line of the other party and push him further and further. After a long time, the old account will slowly become the invisible killer of marriage. After all, everyone is not willing to peel off their coats one by one like the peeling of onions, showing their most embarrassing parts, even in front of the closest people. Quarrels can be, don’t block the movie, “One Thousand Sentences and One Sentence” says: When you are in love, they have a lot to say; After they got married, they had a fight. Even if the couple who usually love again, when they quarrel, there will be 100 times to get divorced and 50 times to kill each other. Because those mouths are unobstructed, they are really like a sharp blade, and they will hurt the most loved one. Taiwan’s famous music producer, Huang Guolun, was swayed by his wife’s “nothing to hide”. Both Huang Guolun and Yan Naixin are tough people. When two people collide together, they are like the sword of the Heavenly Sword, and no one is willing to lose. There was a quarrel, but it was smug, but some rumors came out without the brain: Huang Guolun, which one is worthy of my 寇馨, you know that you are divorced, you are second-hand goods, you are not worthy of me. Huang Guolun did not return, cleaned up his luggage and went to the door and said, “Nanxin, do you know that some words can’t be said?” Lovers are both armor and our weakness. They can say the most beautiful love words, but they can also poke the deepest wounds we have buried in our hearts. Some mouths are unobstructed, and may be tempted, but they are tied to the heart of a lover like a nail. The damage caused is not only the present, it runs through the years, the sun, the moon, the years, the wounds are still eye-catching, and the deep feelings will gradually be corroded and festered. However, entering a marriage means accepting the first half of the lover. Together with his family, experience, and so on, everything is packaged. We should be the shields of each other to face the blizzard of the rest of the world. Love should be loved, words should be said to not speak well, and we will polish our love day after day; getting used to turning over old books will make our lover go away; the rumors that can’t be released when quarreling will make marriage change. Get a chicken feather; Slowly, these “not good to hear” words will evolve into verbal violence, which is the beginning of a marriage breakdown. When we learned to speak for a few months, we now have to learn to shut up for a lifetime. Being gentle to the lover is the greatest kind of kindness to ourselves. I don’t speak well, I am slowly grinding the love story. The Zixia fairy in the Westward Journey said: My Italian person is a hero of the world. One day he will wear a golden armor and drive me with colorful clouds. But I guess the beginning, but I didn’t guess the ending… Both Xiao A and her sister have found the “Heavenly Heroes” in their hearts. The two men got married at the same time and smiled sweetly at the ceremony. However, the opening of happiness is so similar, the end of love is different. The sisters live in the same city. After returning to her family for the New Year, they know that Dad likes to eat crabs and deliberately asked someone to take a box. The car drove halfway, would you like to check if the crab was being smashed? The result was that the trunk was opened and found not. My sister suddenly remembered: Broken, I was at the door of the garage and I forgot to come up. My sister is very self-blaming and has been blaming herself for being careless. Xiao A’s husband took responsibility on himself: Sister, it’s none of your business. I didn’t check it, but I’m going back now. Xiao A also went on to say: Yes, sister, don’t worry about it, we forgot to check it again. But now I’m going back to the darkness of the day, let’s go first, and bring more points to my dad next time. The little A couple felt that there was nothing, but the brother-in-law blew up the pot: every time you lost everything, you couldn’t do anything small. I told my dad to bring the crab home, how can I explain it to him? It’s hard to buy a living, this time the crabs are dead… All the way, the brother-in-law is not reluctant, to the small A’s parents’ home. Nian: Dad, I wanted to let you taste the fresh, she just forgot to pack, you said that people are not angry. Speaking of my sister’s blushing face, she lost her face in her family. In fact, the brother-in-law is not mean, but has no choice but to have a “little tooth”. Many times, he also wants to express his concern for his sister, but he is always used to saying it in a accusatory tone: a cold, let you swear, wear so little. Why are you so stupid, this thing should be done. However, those who should have been gentle, but slowly changed their taste because they would not speak well. In the past three years, Xiao A and her husband have had a lot of business, and the days of the two have become more and more beautiful. The older sister couldn’t stand the spur of the brother-in-law’s language. In order to avoid the war, he proposed to temporarily separate. Language is temperature, gentle whispers can make people feel like spring, and some words make people fall. I won’t talk well and are slowly polishing our love. Every time you lose everything, you can’t do anything small. I told my dad to bring the crab home, how can I explain it to him? It’s hard to buy a living, this time the crabs are dead… All the way, the brother-in-law is not reluctant, to the small A’s parents’ home. Nian: Dad, I wanted to let you taste the fresh, she just forgot to pack, you said that people are not angry. Speaking of my sister’s blushing face, she lost her face in her family. In fact, the brother-in-law is not mean, but has no choice but to have a “little tooth”. Many times, he also wants to express his concern for his sister, but he is always used to saying it in a accusatory tone: a cold, let you swear, wear so little. Why are you so stupid, this thing should be done. However, those who should have been gentle, but slowly changed their taste because they would not speak well. In the past three years, Xiao A and her husband have had a lot of business, and the days of the two have become more and more beautiful. The older sister couldn’t stand the spur of the brother-in-law’s language. In order to avoid the war, he proposed to temporarily separate. Language is temperature, gentle whispers can make people feel like spring, and some words make people fall. I won’t talk well and are slowly polishing our love. Every time you lose everything, you can’t do anything small. I told my dad to bring the crab home, how can I explain it to him? It’s hard to buy a living, this time the crabs are dead… All the way, the brother-in-law is not reluctant, to the small A’s parents’ home. Nian: Dad, I wanted to let you taste the fresh, she just forgot to pack, you said that people are not angry. Speaking of my sister’s blushing face, she lost her face in her family. In fact, the brother-in-law is not mean, but has no choice but to have a “little tooth”. Many times, he also wants to express his concern for his sister, but he is always used to saying it in a accusatory tone: a cold, let you swear, wear so little. Why are you so stupid, this thing should be done. However, those who should have been gentle, but slowly changed their taste because they would not speak well. In the past three years, Xiao A and her husband have had a lot of business, and the days of the two have become more and more beautiful. The older sister couldn’t stand the spur of the brother-in-law’s language. In order to avoid the war, he proposed to temporarily separate. Language is temperature, gentle whispers can make people feel like spring, and some words make people fall. I won’t talk well and are slowly polishing our love.